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It Happened Again

Mother and Child

Mother and Child (Photo credit: Nanda Sunu)

I wanted to reach through my screen, grab the writer by the shirt, and shout when I read it:

“She bravely walked away from her career to have a baby [. . .]  walked away from her job [. . .] I’m sure you know someone – or are that someone – who put their career on hold for family [. . .] “

So began a post about how to profit while ditching career for family.

Sure, I knew what the writer meant.

I also recognized his grand gesture of saluting her bravery.

Hers was a brave act, in these days, foregoing 6-digit employment to cook and clean for a mere handful of people.

Think about it. She used to suit up in expensive attire, choose from zillions of darling shoes, maneuver a shiny car through intricate mazes, elevate to the top of a skyscraper, handle millions without blinking.

But I also knew the writing was wrong, so wrong.

She did NOT give up her career.

No.

She vacated that career, yes, but it was someone else’s to begin with.

And when she began giving her family the time of day, she found her career.

She finally stopped walking away from it.

She opened her eyes to true reality.

She matured and eased into a nobler niche.

She did not lose an important career.

She found it.

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HB, BHO.

While our current “president” kowtows to Planned Parenthood and ignores a recent death involving a botched legal abortion that claimed a young woman’’s life at a Planned Parenthood in his hometown of Chicago, Illinois, he rewards his friends for their campaign support by turning on the taxpayer funding spigot for them. As LifeNews documented, the current administration has rewarded Planned Parenthood with taxpayer funds FIVE times this year alone – each time coming after state legislators cut off taxpayer funding for the nation’s biggest abortion business.

Yet, he wants money for his birthday?

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Just Another Mom – 1

Norwegian Nobel Committee

Nobel Prize

A True Story of What Comes from the “Career”
We Affectionately Call “Motherhood”

Okay, Mom, can you imagine yourself married to a hardware importer so rich he can afford to indulge in philanthropy?

Let’s imagine it for a while, and walk in the life of Mittie, a mother of four during the U.S. Civil War .

You cringe at talk of politics because your family is divided over it. Some relatives have joined the armies of the South and, some, the North; some are Democrats, and, some, Republicans. Your own husband refuses to enlist for combat, to prevent fighting your brothers and breaking your heart.

Another war tugs at your heart, also—a war for the life of one of your children. Your son is ill and spends terrifying nights unable to breathe. How you hate to watch him napping slumped in a chair! Yet, in this way, he finds some relief. His other maladies remain undiagnosed and untreated. You battle with despair.

In your effort to obey doctor’s orders to keep him quiet, you find your son has spunk. He enjoys discovery, so, you allow him to accompany you shopping, on occasion. During one trip to town, his curious eyes spot a dead seal, and he begs for its head.

To your disgust—and your son’s delight—the vendor gives it to him.

The seal head inspires a neighborhood science museum that your son and his friends soon fill with collected and preserved creatures, products of his new studies in taxidermy. By age nine, he possesses enough skill and knowledge to write his first scientific paper on insect life cycles.

Your husband observes your son’s health improving with activity, and encourages him, building a professional gym. Your small, frail son with the wheezy voice uses this gym to learn boxing as an advantage with neighborhood bullies.

Of course, as a family of your standing, you homeschool. Sometimes you employ private tutors, but more often, you prefer parental input for this special child.

The Civil War ends and you allow your son to view the funeral procession for the slain President.

The fight for your son’s health also seems to abate, and your husband takes your family on extensive tours abroad, while helping your son develop a keen interest in—and impressive knowledge of—geography and history. You watch with gladness as he also learns deep respect and love for his dad.

At age eighteen, already a published ornithologist, he enters Harvard, and studies biology. He memorizes many books and builds friendships with anyone who can help him learn more. He even finds energy to spare for teaching Sunday School.

When your son is twenty, though, your husband perishes.

Through your grief, you watch your son with uneasiness, but discover he faces this blow with integrity, doubling his activities. He writes, “My father . . . was the best man I ever knew. He combined strength and courage with gentleness, tenderness, and great unselfishness. He would not tolerate in us children selfishness or cruelty, idleness, cowardice, or untruthfulness.” Your son also said that he never took any serious step or made any vital decision . . . without thinking first what position his father would have taken. Notice, in all this praise for his dad, he never mentions his immense wealth.

Dissatisfied with the pampered college life of the very rich, your son resumes the strenuous activity his dad always recommended. Among his favorite activities are: rowing, boxing, joining fraternities and clubs, and editing a student magazine. He graduates Phi Beta Kappa, in the upper fifth of his class. At this point, he has half written an accurate, illustrated work on naval battles of 1812, often affectionately called his “doctoral dissertation”, still in print and enjoyed as a history text, today.

His physician advises he curtail his active life, but instead, he marries, begins law studies, and then wins a New York Assemblyman position. In this role, he wins the peoples’ support by exposing corruption in city officials. His reputation for fairness wins also—friends and enemies—in both political parties. How like the preparation his early life provided!

Then comes a double blow.

Both his mother and his wife die on the same day.

He buries his grief in more hard work, buying a ranch in the Dakotas and living as a cowhand, law enforcer, and book author for several years. He remarries, gives up political life, and publishes several books.

Healthier than ever, he returns to public service as a presidential appointee. After two terms, he becomes President of New York Police Commissioners, personally walking the streets at night to stop crime. Another appointment, to Assistant Secretary of the Navy, positions him to advance his extensive naval knowledge.

With a war in the Caribbean, he resigns to form a new regiment, which wins a spectacular victory over brutality there.

Next, as Governor of New York, he again wins friends and enemies, cleaning out corruption.

One powerful enemy decides to “retire” him by nominating him for Vice President, a post he soon occupies.

When his President is assassinated, he finds himself holding the most powerful position in the land. Using this power, he fights corruption in labor and production of food and drugs, begins conserving national resources, and works to bring peace. During his presidency, he wins the Nobel Peace Prize (Note: He actually did something to merit this prize.), the Wright brothers make their famous flight, and the Panama Canal begins construction.

Keeping a campaign promise, he refrains from another presidential term. Returning to his first love—the vigorous life his dad always championed—he leads scientific and mapping expeditions in Africa and South America until old age stops him.

Home educated with Dad as primary teacher, forging health from frailty, rising to the U.S. Presidency and a Nobel Prize, who is your famous son?

Answer will appear in the comment section.

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photo credit: Wikipedia

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Tired, Alone, Scared, Misguided, but Safe in the Everlasting Arms

Cry Baby

Here is a horrifying truth: A great number of women are satisfied with having an ungodly husband until something causes them to start thinking about the results.

Having children causes us to think more carefully. We suddenly can see that marrying an unsaved man was a wrong decision. What we do not see is the reason it is wrong.

It is not wrong because a child might suffer.

It is wrong because God said not to do it. The suffering follows the disobedience.

Breaking the marriage vow also is wrong. Breaking the marriage vow also results in suffering that the wife cannot foresee. Breaking the marriage vow also is wrong only because God said not to do it.

The suffering COMES from being wrong; the suffering does not MAKE it wrong.

It is wrong only because it is wrong. Then immediately comes the suffering.

You can choose to suffer for doing wrong OR for doing right. There is glory, though, in suffering for the right. What good is it to suffer for doing wrong?

God has shown you what is good. What does He require of you? It is this:

  1. All of the things you do must be done justly and righteously. Ask God to help you do right in every big and little thing, like submission, prayer, housework, eating habits, etc.
  2. All of your relationships must be based upon love and mercy. Ask God to help you to show loving mercy to every individual around you, including and especially your husband.
  3. Relate to God out of a core attitude of humility. All of everyone’s problems are at least partly the fault of self. Only God is good.

One more thing I need to mention is trust. Trust God, Dear Friend, not your husband. That is the way out of the misery. Is your God big enough to cause good things to happen in spite of a mere man? If not, then you need the Lord of Hosts, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the Father of Heavenly Lights. You can trust Him. He is big enough to cause good things to happen in any life.

Trust Him. Call upon His Name, the Name above all names, Jesus. Ask Him to give you the trust with which to trust Him, and He will do it. Please do not be one of those Christians who misses all the benefits, all the joy, all the peace. He longs to show Himself strong on your behalf. Trust Him. Be like Peter, who stepped out of his wobbly, sloshing boat and walked on the water, straight into the arms of Jesus.

You will not be sorry.

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Photo credit: Jan Tik

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